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General characteristics of personality

The Moon, the inconstant Moon, changing phases 4 times during its cycle (28 days), makes its subordinates very emotional, easily moody, sensual people. When they fall into a good lunar cycle, they look like a fairy-tale baby with a curl on her forehead, who will be adorable if she is in a good mood, but terrible if she is in a bad mood.

The only way for Cancer to overcome sexual attraction and remain faithful is to get into a situation where this is impossible: at work, at a conference, in a hospital where he is immobile due to a cast, or in the arms of his beloved wife.

Positive Traits of Cancer

Despite the fact that Cancers are very nervous (negative types), the positive type has a lot of virtues: patronizing paternal or maternal attitude towards people, leadership in risky business and great perseverance. Above all, they have a valuable quality that helps them overcome their negative traits - patience. Cancerians can be extremely frugal, prudent and hardworking.

Negative Traits of Cancer

Cancers are victims of anxiety and fear. They have to overcome the limits they set for themselves. They should not live in their past childhood, but should force themselves to act according to their age by an effort of will. They should beware of the abuse of alcohol and gluttony. They need to learn to endure criticism and stabilize their moods.

But the main disadvantage is their inability to enter into a conversation if there is the slightest possibility of being defeated. They cannot be "put against the wall", even if they are to blame for something. They would rather continue to lie than pay for their sins.

Economy of love

Cancer is a cunning merchant in love, a complete materialist who, in the economy of love, stands head and shoulders above his astrological brothers and sisters. There are two types of love economy that Cancer uses. The first type is addressed mainly by young people who are consciously looking for older lovers. They are strongly attached to them, especially if they are showered with gifts and not only things. Because Cancerians revel in the role of a life beginner, they like to submit to an experienced, patronizing teacher who acts in their best interests. Unless they happen to be married to these teachers, they usually keep their relationship for a long time until they have served their purpose. If they do get married, they are rarely in a married position past the age of 35. This is a critical age for Cancers. Rarely Cancers live with the same spouse after 35 years.

The second type of love economy is practiced by older Cancers. Usually, by this time they have acquired a stable position. They drastically change their youthful behavior and find themselves a young lover, to whom they give gifts and share with him the wisdom of an experienced person. If Cancers do not divorce their spouses after 35 years, then this happens due to financial dependence or love for children, but not at all out of loyalty to their old spouse. Their married life exists solely for the sake of convenience, while Cancers secretly look after the young.

The most suitable partners for Cancers

Cancer Sexual Compatibility

Up to 29.5 years, the best partners for Cancer should be sought among the signs of Scorpio and Pisces. All three are water signs and require close, passionate, and deep emotional connections. After the age of 29.5, Cancerians usually begin to mature and realize their true identity, becoming more and more liberal and less cautious. Then they often find compatibility with the energetic signs of Gemini and Virgo. These two signs, ruled by Venus, have a lot of youthful vigor and do not consider it humiliating to accept courtesies, including gifts from youths who are already over 30 years old.

After 41.5 years, Cancers should fully develop and gain control over themselves. Then they can be compatible with Capricorn (a highly organized, somewhat mental sign that is always ready to combine its goals and gain power with the already settled Cancer).

Cancer fidelity score

When you're young, it's bad. The exception is when Cancer stays at home for a long time under the guidance of one of the parents, usually the mother, and thus their behavior is controlled not by Cancer himself, but by someone else. It is also bad in marriage, unless Cancer is connected with his spouse by a common business or work, when they constantly see each other. The best period for getting fidelity from Cancer is when he is very young and inexperienced, or after 35 years old, when he is already a seasoned lover and welcomes the refreshing demand for fidelity. Cancerians are also loyal to lovers when they are offered luxury and comfort. But this will seduce any sign in our age of materialism!

Cancers, we astrologers ask you:

• Why do you lie all the time to make people believe you?
• Why, having your own home, ideal lover, wife or husband, do you continue your love affairs?
• When will you start to find your fault in your mistakes?
• When will you give more energy to spiritual qualities?
• Why are you so uncommunicative?
• Why do you make others suffer if you are in a bad mood?
• And finally, why did the stars make you such a deceptive ideal lover (cei), husband (wife)? But you really have all the possibilities, you just have to try.

There is one girl who I ... how to say ... . In general, I checked many times, but when I hint to her that I like her not only as a person, but also as a girl, she says that nothing but friendship can be, and I don’t understand why.

The site gave the following:

General Compatibility: 52%

Physical - 48% - not compatible
Emotional - 57% - intersect
Intelligent - 80% - almost the same
Cardiac - 18% - not compatible
Creative - 62% - overlap
Intuitive - 74% - Compatible
Highest - 22% - not compatible

According to the sign of the Zodiac (the position of the Sun in the sign) - I am Cancer, she is Pisces (signs of the same element).

Characters 3 and 3
Family 5 (for her) and 4 (for me)
Temperament 2 (for her) and 6 (for me)

So what's up?

In-contri:
Alexander, it is very similar to the fact that on your side there is much more sympathy than on her: on the “female” side, emotional compatibility is 57%, while on the “male” side, intelligence is 80% and creativity is 62%.

There is also an intuition of 74% between you that works very well for water signs, but it is not so easy to open and feel it from afar, without close communication.

Of course, our current version of the script on In-contri does not yet reveal many details (but we are working on it). One of these details is that women of the signs of Water, being naturally soft and vulnerable in their souls, try to choose a man who is clearly more rigid in character as their partner. Because of this, they, by the way, often fall on the signs of Fire and get burned with them.

In your case, it still plays a role that she is Pisces, which means the “big brother” for your sign of Cancer. Perhaps the girl Scorpio, whose sign for Cancer is "younger brother", would look at you completely differently.

Good day! I already wrote to you, apparently a long message came out, and you did not answer. The question worries me: why did the man with whom we have good compatibility, as many as 4 maximums and everything is in order according to Pythagoras, preferred another to me? With whom they have continuous dissonance, besides, she is married. According to our compatibility, he should be drawn to me in the same way as I am drawn to him, and because of him I can’t look at others at all. We have common views and ideals, and his friends respect me, I am also not deprived of attention. I feel that the interest is mutual. As for age, I have been engaged in self-development for a long time, so it should suit him kind of. 07/10/1989, he 11/5/1977, she 11/25/1977. Help me to understand(((

In-contri:
Ksenia, your first letter dated November 26 last year was found, and then separately you sent the dates of birth of all the participants. Well, quite a powerful review in terms of content. I regret that he was ignored. But, alas, it is simply physically impossible to read and process everything. And long stories like yours are not bad at all. In them, on the contrary, there is more information for reflection than in 10 short reviews. One problem with long stories is that the answers to them are sometimes written for 2-3 days.

Judging by the fact that even after so much time you do not give up and try to get an answer, this situation and your partner do not let you go and the answer is extremely important. In this case, we will not guess with the timing, but in the near future we will try to understand it deeper.

But we have the opposite ... I'm a cancer, and he's an Aquarius (July 16, 1995 and February 3, 1997). And it was I who patted, as he says, his nerves and it was he who opened his veins because of me and there were attempts to throw himself under the train. Most likely, the relationship between a boa constrictor and a rabbit does not exist, since Aquarius personally does not act on me as it is written by you. Well, which of us is a rabbit and which is a boa constrictor? And I don’t suffer at all for him, but because of me he gets drunk and I feel sorry for the boy, he is not himself.

In-contri:
Milana, and if this is not "Boa and Rabbit", then what? What are all these nerves, vein openings and a rehearsal of the role of Anna Karenina in a male performance?

The overall percentage of compatibility is 82% (not everyone in life manages to meet such a couple in general)
Physical 96% (maximum)
Emotional 96% (maximum)
Intelligent 75% (high)
Cardiac 97% (maximum)
Creative 36%
Top 80% (high)

About your signs - Cancer (you) and Aquarius (he) - have already been said. Accordingly, he is kind of like a "Boa constrictor", and you are a "Rabbit" for him. However, the characters according to Pythagoras make serious adjustments to the pair: you have a confident leader in 1111 and a soft 11 in him. And the funniest thing in the finale: the guy did win back in temperament: 5 for him and 4 for you. As a result, the cards are confused as much as possible.

Well, if you were 10 years older, you would get a completely different experience from these relationships. And so, youthful maximalism and its characteristic inability and unwillingness to build, appreciate and develop something (alas, this is typical for 90% of young partners in relationships) multiplied by the girl’s advantage in age and character, and then all this elevated to the degree of intensity of the couple’s stages "Boa and Rabbit" led to the most severe, but usual for such a couple, confrontation. The rabbit won on the strength of his partner and the weakness of his character. Although, to be honest, there is nothing to rejoice at. Both will remember this relationship all their lives as a madhouse.

Hello. I'm extremely glad to be on this site. And it’s unrealistically surprised - a bunch of sites on this subject, but here it’s so accurate, understandable and interesting, it fascinates directly)

I always paid attention to horoscopes, etc., but now it has become more interesting. After all, it can really help in life. I have a funny story, actually.

Right now, divorced from his ex-wife (I - 10/29/1987, she - 06/18/1975). When I checked compatibility on your site and read the type of relationship “boa constrictor - rabbit”, I just fell off my chair))) word for word as I had .. “rabbit” lasted six years)) but I don’t want to talk about that. Right now, there is only one girl in my head (07/06/1989). The trick is that he started dating her while still married, but soon “sort of” broke up with her. The reason is probably mostly emotional. Few talked heart to heart, but there were splashes sometimes. Or rather, my “stamp in the passport” greatly oppressed her, they say, “busy”. I felt that she could open up, but did not do it to the full extent, as I wanted it. Right now she is apathetic towards me. The feeling that someone was carried away. I want to return it, and I'm working on it. Your site gives strength and hope. I am pleased with my intuitive biorhythm with her, although this may not be the main thing)

Can you give any comments/add. calculations/personal view of my story?)

And by the way, can you add names to calculate compatibility? Or does it not matter, do you think?

In-contri:
Antonio, you are one of the lucky few who wrote a review while a new comment was being written for the site. Of course, the reviews that appear right in front of your eyes, it is impossible not to notice.

But, I will not hide it, in your story, of course, the dates of birth of you and your ex-wife attracted attention: 1987 and 1975. To put it mildly, not very traditional in the public sense. I recall the almost sensational transfer on YouTube with Malakhov about an unequal marriage. Let's leave behind the scenes the age at which you got married, and pay attention only to the fact that today you are two weeks away from 27, and your ex-wife ... 39 years old. Cool. Most readers' eyes, like mine, are probably rounded. I wonder what they will remain if we calculate the compatibility according to your dates:
- General 55% and compatibility in emotions (74%), intellect (65%), heart (70%) and creativity (82%)
- characters 3-3, families 4-2, temperaments 6-5

Many actually could envy this alignment. If not for "Boa and Rabbit" in the horoscope. Although I am sure that it was the specifics of the relationship between the “Boa and the Rabbit” that brought its spark to the stormy beginning of this relationship, which entailed a very controversial marriage from any point of view. Be that as it may, the beginning was dizzying. Well, the end, however, as in most novels of such a pair of characters. But there will be something to remember. Although I had to go through a lot. But do not despair, Antonio, and do not rush into a quick decision about a new companion.

Still, if we talk about the prospects for your relationship specifically with the girl on 07/06/1989, then rather no than yes. I see that you yourself noticed the lack of emotions. And not in vain. The signs of the water element are the most emotional. And their union, in this case, is logical that it should have a basis of common emotions. What, as you see in the calculation and in practice, is not observed. For all readers, I note that there, apart from the physical and intuitive maximum, against the background of a seemingly favorable pair of water signs of Scorpio and Cancer, nothing else is observed.

Yes, you, as a man, are driven by maximum physical compatibility, perhaps there is also a maximum of intuitive. But the real depth of the relationship, believe me, is felt after some time of communication with a new partner. And doubts, emotional coldness, apathy, and literally an abyss in temperaments - 1 for the girl and 5 for you (with a maximum of physical compatibility with her!). All this does not add positive points to the forecast. I would especially like to note that temperaments 1 feel a little uncomfortable under the pressure of temperaments 4-5 (by analogy with characters). And more than once it was discussed that the higher the temperament, the higher the fidelity of the partner, especially when paired with a close temperament. But the lower the temperament, the higher the tendency to go to the left. So here too, Antonio, your presentiment may not fail you. In connection with all of the above, I propose to take a more sober look at the prospects in this pair and not build any special illusions. It’s just that if your plans fail, it will be easier for you to accept and analyze everything.

Names really do not play a role in the calculation of compatibility. This is more about SMS predictions and other miracle services))

I sincerely wish you success, Antonio, in your search for a harmonious couple!

For some reason, the calculation does not take into account when the date of birth is in the extreme numbers of the sign. In theory, the signs are Aries and Cancer, and a plausible description is obtained when you shift for a couple of days both for fish and a lion.

In-contri:
Pavel, once again for you and other readers I will draw your attention to the fact that the extreme dates by signs have been brought into line with the Western standard of astrology. In general, it seems to me that this eternal dispute about boundary signs will never end. Therefore, here it is better to analyze yourself personally in more depth and take the position that most closely matches reality. I can also say from experience that the approved format is more accurate, because the vast majority of people born in the last decade of their sign tend to display the traits of the next sign. What can we say about people born on the very last day of the sign.

My name is Pavel) I have known this site for about a year)

Hmm, where was he before about 4 years ago at least) when I thought that I was a loser in life and for the fact that the relationship did not work out in any way) I looked at compatibility then 30% then 36% then 49%) and everything fell into place .. started get acquainted with large percentages of compatibility .. well, when how) you know, percentages are percentages, but you can’t order your heart)

About 2 months ago I wrote to a girl and, moreover, a profile without her photos) and then this began .. communication from morning to evening .. and everything is so simple) and the humor is chic) ​​favorite writers, directors, musicians, composers, general views on life, we both study at the faculty of psychology) even both coins once collected) at the first meeting I was fascinated by her) Today a declaration of love is planned !! Just a big thank you!!!

Cancer Virgo

Physical 67% compatible
Emotional 72% - compatible
Intelligent 67% compatible
Cardiac 71% - Compatible
Creative 81% - almost identical
Intuitive 83% - almost identical
Top 67% - compatible

In-contri:
Paul, great review! I'm rooting for you now. Well, and, of course, success!

Hello! I wrote to you earlier, but since I have not received an answer yet, I decided to expand the question.

My husband and I have been in a couple for 10 years, of which 4 have been living together and raising a child (he is my first man). Relationships have never been smooth: there was a period (before marriage) when I was looking for relationships on the side, because. lack of understanding on his part. She left a couple of times, and then decided to translate the relationship into non-binding sex. And so it went on for a couple of years: I communicated with other men (more emotionally than physically), while simultaneously meeting with my own. Finally, the fear of being alone prevented me from leaving.

During this period of “free” relationships, I met another man whom I still periodically remember. He is 18 years older than me. Sympathy arose at first sight. He took the initiative (calls, meetings, kisses). But he was in no hurry to move to a more serious level. For a while, that suited me (dating two men). But then, when the calls began to arrive less and less often, I tried to “shake” him. But due to her youth, she did it too clumsily and emotionally, which probably scared her away and gave a reason to do what he already intended: to stop communicating with me.

After several months of suffering, I resigned myself to the fact that my “love” was unrequited. I finally returned to my boyfriend (future husband) who, already being a 30-year-old man, said: “I gave you time to think, now it’s time to decide” - he made it clear that he would look for a girl for marriage if I didn’t hurry. Realizing that in pursuit of "dreams" I can miss the chance to connect life with a practical person, I forced myself to forget the past and a year later I moved in with him and we had a child.

Joint life at first was like a powder keg. We often swore, and it was infuriating that instead of reassuring me (I am overly emotional), he reacted doubly emotionally. To which I responded sharply three times ... A couple of times he promised to “hit” me if I didn’t shut up.

In order to somehow control myself, I went to work. And this became a salvation for us - a kind of substitute for those men, communication with whom in the period before marriage allowed me to maintain relations with my current husband.

My husband complains that I work too much. But in general, ready to put up. It suits me that he is the ideal husband and father for our child. And provided that he does not interfere with my creative development, I am ready to put up with the ongoing fear that if I let my guard down for a moment and give him more freedom than my security can guarantee, he will do stupid things ...

At the same time, sometimes I want to experience again what I felt in relation to the man I wrote about above (((especially after we broke through our compatibility:
physical - 44%
emots. - 54%
intel. - 83%
heart - 85%
creative - 65%
intel. - 72%
higher - 71%

To this we can add the fact that our signs are from the same element (Virgo and Capricorn), the temperament is the same (5 and 5), the character is 1 higher. Nepotism: I am "spontaneous", he is a "family man-idealist". The only embarrassing thing is that in this pair I am the “parent”, and he is the “child”. Maybe this was the reason for his inertia? How do you see this situation? Very interesting, even though it's too late to change something.

P.s. For several years, fate has been pushing us regularly. Every time he shows affection. Tried to start a conversation and stay. And I, on the contrary, because of the once wounded pride, pretended that I didn’t notice this and tried to run away as soon as possible (I wouldn’t want that terrible situation of uncertainty when they don’t call you again)

Here is me and my husband:
physical - 43%
emots. - 53%
intel. - 59%
heart - 14%
creative - 68%
intuit - 72%
higher - 71%

Our signs are Virgo and Cancer. By nature, he is a leader, in a couple he is a father - I am a child, and my temperament let us down a bit: I have 5, my husband has 3 :)

I know that everything is clear here. But for a brief comment about the above, I will be very grateful.

In-contri:
Hello, thank you for such a deep and detailed story. Alas, before that I had not met either her or your pseudonym in the mail of the site.

Let's start with an overview of your relationship with your husband. To be honest, it seemed that your choice, as happens with girls, even those who are very successful with many men, was not due to the fact that this partner was the best for you, but because you simply knew your husband longer than others , so by default your credit of trust to him was greater. Moreover, it turns out that he put you before a choice and pushed his will into 5 units of the role of “big brother” multiplied by the strength in relation to your sign. You know, such situations often surprise the male brain when, a girl who was sought by many interesting men, in the end chooses a “guy from next door”, whom she has known since childhood. Simply because she has long known its pros and cons, got used to it, found some kind of common language. And this, as we see, is present in a pair with your husband. Although it is strange that you are not used to enduring the emotionality inherent in Cancers, like all water signs. But here, rather, the problem is not that the husband’s emotionality is too high, but that she is irritable for you, because. is simply incompatible. More precisely - a kind of unpredictable swing in half of emotional compatibility. There is an opinion, by the way, that sometimes a dissonance in compatibility is better than such half-hearted swinging levels. But you have no dissonances, except for those close to it in the heart chakras, but there are a little at each level. We see the highest compatibility in the highest levels, which gives an illusory hope for the development of these relations in the future. Indeed, as has been said more than once, it is the compatibility in the 3 highest levels that influence the progress of relations in the long term.

Only, alas, a harmonious basis for relations without the two lower "female" levels does not add up. The lack of a strong emotional and heart connection pushed you to look for new partners. No wonder you even made a reservation that communication happened with them more emotionally. However, you have chosen a compromise from the “ideal husband”, “efficient person”, and simply someone who had the will to influence you in order to finally persuade you to choose in your favor.

They say that all meetings in our destiny are not accidental. So it was not accidental for you to meet with that man who is much older than you, but, despite this, caused those feelings that cannot fade until now. Its detailed chakra compatibility with you is very interesting: do you not notice that this is, as it were, a more successful copy of your husband? To such an extent that at some levels the differences are literally plus or minus a couple of percent. Only the main advantages of this mature man - finally, almost the maximum in "female" heart compatibility with you and a strong intersection in the "male" intellect. If these two detailed calculations were considered by an imaginary Compatibility Doctor, he would say: “darling, you have a pattern!”. What does the image of a potential partner, rooted in the mind, formed due to unsuccessful past or existing relationships, mean?

It is difficult to say what causes the appearance of patterns. But it should be noted that their influence on craving for a partner is no less than when there are maximums in compatibility between people. Psychologically, the search for a partner similar to one of our former or current ones may be due to the fact that our consciousness wants to make another attempt at “the same relationship”, but this time it will be successful. Surely, you have noticed more than once how young girls say that they are “lucky” for certain types. So this is actually no luck at all, but a subconscious search for patterns in the surrounding people of the opposite sex. Therefore, Alya, it is very likely that you in the Capricorn man just see some kind of alternative to the current husband-Cancer and a more successful opportunity to realize relationships.

And, if it were not so, it is unlikely that you would have written. Hope for a better attempt is read between the lines. And, it should be noted that it still has a basis. With your brain, you compromise in your current relationship, write that "everything is already clear." But the heart chose that second partner. And, it seems to me that after so much time after trying a relationship, fate does not push you against him ... but pushes you. Don't fool yourself. Try to restore this communication and then everything will become clear to both of you. Better to try and regret once than not to try and regret for the rest of your life.

Hello! I really like to check my compatibility with men on your site. But! One thing confuses me, here I come out as a virgin, although I am a lion by the Sun, I study the natal chart, so I know that I am a Leo. Therefore, could you tell me what my compatibility with a man is, given that I am still a lion) My date: 08/23/1991. His 07/01/1986. Thanks in advance.

In-contri:
Suraya, if you take only chakras / biorhythms, then everything is pretty good - as many as 3 very powerful compatibility:

But then there are some contradictions: the Cancer guy, being 5 years older than you, has 2 times less strong character according to Pythagoras - 2 against 4 for you. And also an unclear situation with your sign, as, indeed, in most cases with border signs.

Well, if you take Leo and Cancer, then these will be friends-neighbors "Best friend and best enemy." The couple is not that incompatible, but rather from the category of "you can live." By the way, for the sake of sporting interest, statistics on pairs of signs of In-contri readers were already collected, and this pair turned out to be the most popular. So it's not worth putting an end to it.

In this case, one thing is negative: the confrontation between your elements of Fire (Leo) and Water (Cancer), where victory will go with varying degrees of success either to the older and more experienced Cancer man, or to the more explosive and strong-willed Lioness, that is, you. Only Cancer does not like such confrontations at all, and each victory will not please, but oppress. After all, at what cost did she get it. I will tell you this, that usually men cannot stand this for a long time. Either they leave, or the inner core breaks and they give up. A strong woman for a weaker man is another test.

78% - cancer and Aries - excellent compatibility - pure truth - there is no passion in sexual relations - but everything is calm and solid, otherwise - I can’t imagine life without my ram! Close and beloved relative! Grown to each other - do not break! Communication at some higher level… Thank you!

In-contri:
Natalia, although there are a couple of signs and different parity, but the interaction can be positive. And with your 78% in chakras / biorhythms (this is a powerful compatibility!) You can count on good chances. Good luck to you!

Hello! I became interested in the compatibility of the signs of the zodiac after parting with a man with whom it was interesting at first, exciting, and then simply unbearably hard. After reading about how a Taurus woman and a Sagittarius man get along, I was surprised how accurately astrologers reflect all the subtleties of such relationships, as if they wrote from us))). Well, of course, it started ... I began to look at compatibility by year of birth, then date of birth (it's interesting !!!), and having plunged into the study of compatibility with other signs, I thought then: I wish I could meet Cancer. The relationship with the Sagittarius was long and painful (and there were no others), which I just wanted to believe the stars. Six months later, I met my Cancer, understanding at a glance, ease of communication, common interests, etc. Of course, I checked compatibility on different sites: the relationship is harmonious, long-lasting, but as they say on one of the sites, it leaves a seal of misfortune on me, and I didn’t find exactly how it manifests itself. Can you tell me? I am 05/12/1983, he is 07/05/1963.

Opinion of In-contri and classical astrology:

Full calculation (for chakras / biorhythms, the total is 69% - above average):

Date of Birth	05.07.1963	12.05.1983
Biorhythms/Chakras
Physical	80%
Emotional	84%
Intellectual	28%
Cordial	38%
Creative	89%
Intuitive	90%
Higher	73%
Horoscope
Zodiac signs	Cancer - Water	Taurus - Earth
Square of Pythagoras
Character	3	4
family	2	5
Temperament	3	5

Another pleasant thing, as you have already seen, is the “Elder brother - younger brother” pair, where Taurus, that is, you, Alena, is for the elder. And, as it happens in most couples with roles arranged by the Zodiac, the same is confirmed in Pythagoras - 4 in your character against 3 in Cancer. Although it can be assumed with a high degree of certainty that at the initial stage, a more mature Cancer man with a “golden”, but nevertheless impulsive character, will try to show himself as a leader. But over time, you will come to natural roles, where you are given the place of the first number.

It is also extremely important (this is the second main point after the favorable compatibility of signs) - high compatibility in all three higher chakras. For partners your age and especially your companion, this is key compatibility. Therefore, already now we need to start working on its disclosure, plan life together, share experience and our life philosophy with each other - in general, build relationships, also as a deep spiritual union.

I think, Alena, that you have already read enough promising forecasts about your couple and, among other things, found additional confirmations on this site. It's all good. Only now, I'm afraid that the main problems will await you outside. What can I say: a 30-year-old girl and a 50-year-old man. For sure, in the eyes of the majority, this will look at least like an unequal marriage of convenience. From the side of your environment: "the old man decided to shake the old days", "why do you need this, I would find a young one." On the part of his entourage: “she needs money / property from you, and then she will divorce you”, “she was deprived of her father’s attention as a child, so now she is with you, but this will pass.” And everything like that. There is no need to even guess - these are the stereotypes of society. And that's why you need to focus on the strongest and deepest aspects of compatibility in your couple in order to resist this public opinion. So that no one even has doubts about the strength of your union.

Yes, your couple certainly does not look in the traditional format. While in fact it is very harmonious. And hardly many people know that the Cancer man, even at an advanced age, remains in his soul a refined romantic and dreamer. And next to a much younger girl, such a man himself acquires a second youth. So rejoice at your meeting, develop the ground of common interests, but do not rush things regarding marriage yet. Nevertheless, your chosen one has family 2 and this, as a rule, needs some time. Although the initiative is likely to come more from you, Alena. And there is nothing wrong with that, only, I repeat, everything has its time.

ps: about the "seal of misfortune." Naturally, I understood what kind of site it was. I saw him too. But, alas, he is one of those who drives several typical answers for all couples in a circle and, believe me, the “seal of misfortune” is heard there right and left for every third couple. This can already be called a feature of such a site. And there are, by the way, also a lot of funny sites, by the way, much more popular than ours, where all couples are perfectly compatible with each other. Therefore, everyone chooses what he likes. And if we talk about chips, then on In-contri, as you, I hope, have noticed, there are no two pairs with identical calculation. All are individual. Just like the people themselves.

Speaking of which, that site uses synastry calculation, which is practically very difficult to implement as a script on the site. It can be truly reliable if two conditions are met:
- calculated manually by an experienced astrologer (I am familiar with one of these and have seen it happen)
- you know exactly to the minute the time of birth of yours and your partner

And just with the second moment, everything is not as simple as it seems. After all, we really only know from rumors and memories from our parents, at best, at what hour we were born. Therefore, when the error of our birth time is added to the error of the partner’s birth time, then such “seals” are obtained in practice. And in the synastry, it may be that a person born at 9 o'clock in the morning and, say, at 10 already with a completely different set of qualities. In my opinion, such an approach has the right to life, but the accents in it are often completely wrong. If a person is a Taurus, like you, for example, then he is first of all a Taurus and already in the second and third turns has the qualities of other signs. And not the dominant qualities. And in similar calculations, everything can be turned out so that you have nothing left of Taurus. Let me remind you that a difference in only one hour of birth can lead to this. Whereas in the In-contri calculation, we see that a difference of a day or two in the date of birth will not lead to cardinal shifts. Unless these day or two fall on the boundary markers.

Here, Alena. It's my opinion. You can argue or agree. I wish you good luck in love, development, mutual spiritual growth and, of course, I would like them to write in a year how things are going for you. Happiness to you!

Delicate, fragile and graceful Cancer woman has a very sensitive psyche. Therefore, communicating with her or creating any relationship, you must always show very reverent care.

As practice has repeatedly proven, the Cancer woman is a devoted friend and faithful wife.

There is so much secret and incomprehensible in her soul that a stable mood for the representatives of this sign is an unattainable goal.

It is the goal, because in public the Cancer girl will try to behave as confident, independent and independent.

Although this is absolutely not true. In fact, these are very dependent people who are afraid that they will be left alone, abandoned.

Do you want your compatibility with a Cancer woman to be perfect? Show her that she is the one and only.

Cancer woman - a characteristic of the sign

In her behavior, a Cancer woman shows shyness and shyness, and therefore she is in great need of support, which only close people can provide to her. Her shyness will prevent her from expressing her need directly.

The sensitive soul of a girl - Cancer is very susceptible to other people's criticism and ridicule. Therefore, having heard something like this at her own expense, the representative of this sign, which is included in the Zodiac, will remember this for a long time. Indeed, in her opinion, the worst thing that can happen is to hear criticism addressed to her.

By the way, the memory of the representatives of this sign is really good. Hearing something interesting, a Cancer woman can easily reproduce it later.

She also loves history and loves to dive into the past. In her house, you can often find history books on the shelves, antiques in the interior, and family portraits and images of ancestors on the walls of the house.

This attitude is the desire of Cancer to show the compatibility of the past and the present. They really like to feel like a link in a chain of events. Therefore, they are often interested in questions about the transmigration of souls, believing that this is possible.

In communication, he is a very pleasant person. A woman born under the sign of Cancer knows how to keep up the conversation and is an excellent storyteller.

Her stories are able to captivate and interest. In addition, she is a wonderful friend who is able to listen and will keep the secrets entrusted to her.

However, you should always watch your words and actions. It's very easy to offend a Cancer. For example, a bad joke can bring her to tears.

Such impressionability of these persons originates from the expectations that Cancer draws in his imagination. For these people, the compatibility of reality and imaginary pictures is the norm, and they are genuinely surprised and offended when this is not the case.

Soaring in the clouds and longing for what could be is abruptly replaced by a good mood, and then returns to its original state again.

Cancerians are very changeable and can be in several different moods during the day.

Cancer woman in a relationship

For a happy life, a classic Cancer woman needs only two things - love and protection. That is why she will be able to give herself completely to a partner who will give her the opportunity to experience both.

It is important to understand that with all the manifestations of coquetry and charm, such a lady is unlikely to take the first step. Therefore, a man will have to take on the role of a leader, a leader.

Representatives of this sign can flirt, but they will do it very restrained and neat. After all, they are afraid to appear accessible. And they will not show their feelings and emotions for show. After all, the vulnerability that the Zodiac endowed them with makes them defenseless against the dangers of the world around them.

Therefore, such a quivering soul is looking for its protector, who can shelter her from all sorts of adversities. In return, she will be able to listen and feel the problem, which is very attractive to men. The compatibility of modesty and charm in this sweet woman makes her, if not popular, but a welcome companion for many men.

In love, she will be able to give completely and selflessly, but she will require the same attitude from her partner. He must prove to her every day that she is beautiful, smart and just wonderful. The zodiac makes these modest women prone to self-abasement, and therefore she often requires confirmation of her exclusivity.

Such a woman will be faithful to her partner and will be able to forgive many of his shortcomings. But not indifference and aggressive behavior. To win the quivering heart of this doe, you need to show sensitivity, tenderness, affection and care.

A Cancer woman can let a man into her bed when she feels that she has met true love. But in order not to fail her lover, it is imperative to convince her that there is nothing forbidden in erotic desires.

Cancer will have excellent physical compatibility with a gentle and affectionate partner who will not allow himself rude behavior. At the same time, it is very important to give her many compliments about her appearance and beautiful body.

And if a lover can take into account these features, he will receive a sensitive and affectionate mistress in bed, who can give him great pleasure.

She likes to have sex slowly and in the most comfortable conditions. This place can be her home, where she can feel safe. The zodiac endowed her with the ability to cause an increase in desire with light touches and sensitively respond to the slightest movements of her partner.

Romantic in life, Cancer lovers in bed will also appreciate the aesthetics of lovemaking. For example, sex on the beach under the light of the moon or a room with scented candles and pleasant music will allow her to relax and enjoy her time. Create such conditions for her, and your compatibility will give you unforgettable moments of sexual pleasure.

In a relationship, a Cancer woman shows maximalism. That is, at the stage when it will be necessary to move to the next step - to the wedding - she will set a clear condition: marriage or separation.

Loyalty to loved ones also applies to the beloved man. But this situation often leads to a depressed state of men who feel like they are in a cage. Especially when the wife's fear of losing her husband begins to manifest itself.

She is able to sit until late at night waiting for his arrival. She can call several times and clarify where her husband is and what he is doing, but she does not dare to directly express her feelings in scandals. After all, this would mean showing weakness, and this sign, which is part of the Zodiac, cannot afford this.

For Cancers, the house is a refuge in which they hide from the outside world. An economic woman Cancer will maintain order in her house, and she will show care and attention to her loved ones.

That's really who will really have a "house - a full bowl." Everything will always be in abundance here: love, care, food, comfort and coziness. Such a mistress always keeps all things and never gets rid of them. The same careful attitude is manifested in relation to money. Cancer will have good compatibility with that husband who will not throw money down the drain.

A classic example of a woman born under the sign of Cancer is a wife who will not leave her husband, even if he is an alcoholic, drug addict or womanizer. Such forgiving love, which this zodiac sign endowed with, can confuse a partner. But such a woman cannot do otherwise, because she is simply terrified of being left alone.

In order to find happiness in life, a person often has to deal with his shortcomings.

Some of them may just be uncomfortable.

But there are traits that can spoil life for a long time.

Becoming on the path of self-improvement, knowing about your own shortcomings will help her become better.

A Cancer woman may be able to achieve changes in her own destiny.

All the time different and somewhere even a hysterical Cancer woman will be able to improve her life if she copes with the negative traits of her character. Namely:

• laziness;
• steadfastness and steadfastness in defending one's own and, at times, erroneous beliefs;
• the desire to show oneself cruel or all-forgiving, which depends on one's own sympathies;
• a tendency to denigrate people;
• aggressiveness;
• euphoria;
• mania;
• various whims;
• quick and unreasonable irritability;
• manifestation of strangeness;
• overestimated value of one's own "I";
• optional;
• distraction;
• slowness;
• hysteria;
• lack of assembly.

Perhaps a Scorpio man will be the best partner a Cancer woman can meet. His possessive feelings and jealousy are exactly what such a woman needs.

A good couple will be the Pisces man and his companion Cancer. She will be able to return him "from heaven to Earth" and provide him with truly maternal care, which is inherent in this sign.

With a Virgo partner, a Cancer girl will have a long and happy relationship. After all, they both love order, show thriftiness and are able to spend money economically.

Compatibility of two Cancers will also be good. After all, they are, in fact, very similar and therefore will be able to understand each other perfectly. They will not get bored together, they will show respect for each other. It is important for both of them not to become depressed at the same time.

The Taurus man, who is very stubborn, which the Zodiac endowed him with, will also have a successful alliance with the modest Cancer. After all, they perfectly complement each other with character traits that are absent from the other side.

A driven woman born under the sign of Cancer will be able to get along with a Leo man and their relationship will be stable.

A beautiful romance will be an alliance with an Aries man. And if his mismanagement of Cancer will annoy, then the intensity of passions will smooth out all the "roughness".

Cancer will have poor compatibility with a Gemini man. Her excessive sensitivity will irritate his prudent mind, but she simply cannot get along well with a person who does not know what stability is and is frivolous about everything.

Aquarius man and Cancer woman will not be able to build a romantic relationship. His frivolity will not be able to give her the necessary sense of security and stability. They can be buddies or friends, but nothing more.

A man born under the sign of Libra, which is part of the Zodiac, will be able to charm a Cancer woman. But she will not feel stability and reliability next to him.

And although the Capricorn man knows how to be confident in the future, his compatibility with Cancer will still be low. At first, although she will feel protected, she may soon feel her uselessness and even become a hindrance in his life.

The Sagittarius man is able to charm the companion of Cancer at first sight, but his complete lack of thriftiness will annoy her. In addition, his unpredictability, which this zodiac sign has endowed, will make her uncomfortable.

Cancer woman - a general description of the sign

Cancer is the only sign that can find mutual understanding with everyone, but he finds special happiness with Scorpio, Virgo, Capricorn, Pisces.

From June 22 to July 22 - Time of Cancer. This zodiac sign is ruled by the Moon. This fickle planet, changing phases 4 times during its cycle (28 days), makes Cancers - their wards - very emotional, easily moody, sensitive and sensual people.

When they fall into a good lunar cycle, they look like a fairy-tale baby with a curl on her forehead, who will be adorable if she is in a good mood, but terrible if she is in a bad mood. Cancers are very shy and fear rejection more than all the other signs combined. They are sensitive and emotionally vulnerable, indecisive and not as aggressive in love affairs as men of other signs. They are ideal in bed, but they need the emotional content of every sexual connection. They are waiting for exceptional love, understanding, striking, supporting, in return they will give themselves entirely and surround their partner with tenderness.

For Cancers, life is boring and empty without love. They love selflessly, completely surrendering to feelings. They tend to subordinate themselves entirely to the character of their partner, and this is not difficult for them, since their intuition is very developed. They are perfect if they feel loved. And they are the most difficult people in life if they do not feel love, while living a difficult and painful life themselves. The reason for their misfortunes is shyness, painful vulnerability, resentment and a highly developed sense of ownership. In a romantic relationship with Cancer, you need to give up excessive curiosity about his inner world while you know each other for a short time. Cancers need confidence that they are communicating with a person who can pour tender care and love on him.

For a deeper relationship, you need to learn how to communicate at the soul level. Cancers do not like to be teased, especially in public. If you want to keep the relationship for a long time, avoid putting pressure on him, act with the help of persuasion and affection. In their youth, Cancers are romantics, they dream of ideal love. Imagination outstrips life experience.

Partnerships for Cancer are of great importance - this is a support for him in all matters. He himself has a special sense of patronage. Usually he is shy, but when he is in a circle of like-minded people, he opens up like a tender lily after the rain, surrounding you with care and deep understanding. At the same time, being in his company, you intuitively feel that this man is a defenseless child who needs maternal care, support and tenderness.

In the depths of his soul, Cancer suffers deeply if there is no one next to him who could come to his aid at any moment, would guard his safety. He remains a child all his life, he always needs care. He is an eternal dreamer and romantic. He believes, and quite sincerely, that his chosen one will want to give him all of herself without a trace, not only appreciate his undoubted merits, but also come to terms with his shortcomings. Heart anguish about love problems and strong feelings are not for him. Cancer can rather be compared to a stream of water, slowly flowing along its channel and only occasionally falling in a stormy waterfall ... Gusts of passion are good for him from time to time, he will not withstand prolonged tension, a constant storm of feelings.

A woman who has dealt with Cancer at least once in her life knows what real tenderness is. A man born under this sign has all the qualities to make an impressionable woman with a subtle nature happy. First of all, Cancer is waiting for warmth, it is extremely pleasant for him to meet a cordial and sincerely benevolent person. He will feel disarmed just in front of such a woman - affectionate, devoted, loving almost like a mother. He will want to see her as his wife, sister, mother and lover at the same time. When Cancer gives his love, it seems that his feelings are the feelings of an innocent child who does not know lies and deceit. If he loves, then he gives all his heart, all his soul without a trace. He believes that as soon as he exposes all his weaknesses to the object of his adoration, there can be no question of being deceived or offended.

If the beloved woman does not justify his trust, he will withdraw into himself and will not want to leave his "shell". He will become secretive, will begin to doubt whether it is worth revealing his feelings, thoughts and dreams to anyone. In no case can cancer be hurt, although it is easy to do this - he does not know how to defend himself at all. He is very painfully experiencing every act, every ill-conceived word addressed to him - some insignificant remark can greatly offend him.

Each manifestation of cynicism, self-interest or cruelty gradually destroys his idea of ​​\u200b\u200bideal love. After all, he himself is ready for complete self-giving, for absolutely disinterested love, requiring nothing in return but love. Only such an exalted feeling enriches him spiritually and gives him faith in the goodness and meaning of life. Disappointment for Cancer is a blow from which it is difficult for him to recover. He withdraws into himself, plunging into a fantasy world - where he can dream of ideal love. He will prefer just such a path and will not look for another one that could lead to the realization of his dream, because he is so afraid of being disappointed again! Cancer does not like it when they do not understand and accept it, do not show condescension towards it. If criticism of his actions or character is added to this, he simply cannot bear it - he is already notorious, not confident in himself and suffers terribly, not feeling safe.

Cancerians can live the richest and most painful life - it all depends on whether they managed to solve the problem of relationships with their mother. Why with mother? The moon - their patroness - in astrology symbolizes the mother. Hence, such a strong dependence of Cancers on the mother is understandable. Cancers rarely marry at an early age, as they hardly leave their parental home and are too attached to their mother. The success of Cancer as an individual depends on whether he managed to solve the problem of relationships with his mother, whether he was able to free himself or remain dependent on her. If Cancers still get married at an early age, then they are rarely in a married position after 35 years. This is a critical age for Cancers. Rarely Cancers live with the same spouse after 35 years.

If a woman whom Cancer met on her way considers motherhood to be the most important thing in life, if all her thoughts are directed to creating a family, Cancer will very quickly come to the conclusion that this is his ideal. A strong family union promises him a welcome sense of security. At the same time, it is very important that his chosen one remembers his psychological and emotional dependence on the family: good relations with his close and distant relatives will once again convince him of the correctness of his choice. Naturally, his mother plays a primary role in this sense - it is on her that his decision ultimately depends.

But even in this case, Cancer, making an important decision about marriage, may feel insecure. A woman must help him cope with this task: to demonstrate that she can be an exemplary hostess, a wonderful wife and - most importantly! - the magnificent mother of his future children. Cancer was created rather for living in the comfort of home, away from the intrigues and harshness of the surrounding reality. If, in addition, he is surrounded by kids, this is real happiness for him! It is not suitable for performing any tasks of an "external" nature; the purpose and meaning of life in his understanding - in the family, in people close to him.

The stronger he feels his connection with them, the higher his assessment of his own existence.

Do you get the impression that Cancers are ideal lovers and spouses? Why, then, in astrology there is a myth that Don Juan was exactly Cancer? It is said about him that Cancer is a cunning merchant in love, a complete materialist who, in the economy of love, stands head and shoulders above all his astrological brothers. Cancers, perhaps, can compete with Gemini in their changeability and inconstancy (Until the relationship has grown into a family, of course). And, I think Gemini Cancers will win! But we'll talk about this next time.

Cancers, depending on the time of birth, may be different. Some are very suspicious and rarely show their inner self. But if they fall in love with a woman, there is nothing that Cancers do not do to please the object of their love. They can be peaceful, calm and simple, and their love is true and unshakable. They make devoted husbands and fathers who live only for the family. They are often homebodies, devoted to their loved ones, friends and family, and can do almost anything for them that is in their power. Emotionally mature Cancer is a great father. He is fiercely protective of his wife and children. For his family and for his children, Cancer is capable of feats. But, oddly enough, he instinctively avoids those women who purposefully seek his support. And most often strong women attract him. Life with Cancers should be based on mutual respect, empathy. It is very important to maintain peace and tranquility in the house, to be, like him, sensitive and romantic, to remember all the significant dates in the life of the family and all household members, to appreciate delicious food and housework.

Usually the behavior of Cancer in intimate situations is due to some "feminine" qualities of his character. You should not suppress the individuality of Cancer, show him emotional coldness. Because of his increased sensitivity, he absolutely cannot stand the cooling of relations, criticism in his address. Criticism of his relatives will hit him the most, with whom, whatever it may be, he is always very closely connected emotionally, one might even say, he is dependent on her. Therefore, it is impossible to destroy the authorities and ideals that have developed in his mind. If, God forbid, he has to choose between his wife and his relatives, then he may well give preference not to his wife, but to his parents, brother, etc. Therefore, in the name of love for Cancer, one should not talk about the shortcomings of his relatives - this hurts him very much. In his house, you can’t have constant noisy parties, joke about his hypersensitivity.

Cancer is a faithful family man, delicate in nature, but overly impressionable, which one day can become a very serious problem for his chosen one. Leading a calm and measured life, he can begin to annoy her with the fact that he was, and remained, an unadapted child, very attached to his parents. She will face the eternal problem of daughter-in-law and mother-in-law, and her husband will not be able to choose which of the two "mothers" to please. He will begin to maneuver between them, which will only complicate the situation.

He is very susceptible to other people's influence and considers the correct arguments that he hears at the moment, and this simply leads to paradoxical situations! Cancer-father, madly loving his children, tries to isolate them from the bad, in his opinion, the influence of the environment. In the same way, he will treat his wife, subconsciously seeking to limit the scope of her communication, since it seems to him that any of her contacts with the world threaten their family well-being. Such is his nature - he has a very strong need to feel safe, and he sees a threat to this in everything around him. This concern for safety can sometimes lead to complete isolation.

Another type of Cancer is capricious, a mystery to itself, refined and ambiguous. This type wanders from woman to woman in search of his ideal. They are fickle in affections mainly because they do not let anyone into the depths of their feelings - the action of the love drama takes place on the surface. If these Cancers do not divorce their spouses after 35 years, then this often happens due to financial dependence or love for children, but not at all out of fidelity to their spouse. Their married life exists solely for the sake of convenience, while they can secretly care for young ones. Of course, this type of Cancer devotes a lot of time to creating a cozy home life, they are looking for a faithful wife, give birth to offspring. But as soon as this is achieved, they secretly find satisfaction in hobbies, justifying their adventures with social activities, deeds, etc.

The only way for such a Cancer to overcome sexual attraction and remain faithful is to get into a situation where this is impossible: at work, at a conference, in a hospital where he is immobile due to a cast, or in the arms of his beloved wife. He cannot be faithful, unless he is connected with his wife by a common business or work, when they constantly see each other. This type of Cancer is the most promiscuous of all the zodiac signs. Volatile in mood, he can easily find himself in a tangle of sexual exploits. However, by creating an attractive facade of naivety, he forces the woman to take the first step.
At the same time, these Cancers can be possessive and very jealous. These romantics can even be tyrants. They demand firm rules from their partner, which they themselves do not follow. No other sign is able to show such false virtue, fidelity, sensuality and insult to feelings as Cancer when he is personally to blame. What a heart-rending mask - those wet, sad eyes - that Cancer can put on: a little boy who was offended, offended. They cannot be "put against the wall", even if they are to blame for something. They would rather continue to lie than confess or pay for their sins.

Each person is unique in terms of character, however, having information about the Zodiac Sign of your man, you can better know the features of his personality. So you will be more likely to like him and understand how to build your relationship.

If your man is Cancer, it is important to note for yourself right away that this Zodiac Sign is characterized by immense love for the family. Of course, this does not mean that people of other Signs cannot value family life, parents or their children. No, it's just that almost all men born under the sign of Cancer are family people. They are predisposed to this way of life and truly love it.

For a woman, family always comes first, but that's not all. The man of this Zodiac Sign is not tough for all the ladies. Let's take a closer look at the possible traits and secrets of the Cancer man to help you win his heart.

5 Cancer secrets you need to know

Secret one: A man born under the constellation Cancer loves to be more than just a father or husband. Very often, his dream is the complete and comprehensive management of the family. If you are a woman who wants to take a full part in raising children and managing the family budget on an equal basis with the chosen one, then most likely you risk being disappointed. Cancers expect obedience from their loved ones.

secret number two: if your man is Cancer, then there will be no lack of affection and love. Yes, many Cancers take on the responsibility of full control, but maybe that's for the best? They are always busy, but the family for them is the center of the universe, so they give all their warmth to their relatives. They are like a warm blanket that covers you in the evenings and always gives you a sense of calm. Such people want to entrust themselves and all family affairs.

Third secret is following the rules. Yes, Cancers are gentle and pleasant, but if in childhood their mother did not show them what real romance is, then they themselves are unlikely to learn this. Do not try to remake these people, because you still will not succeed. It is better not to argue with them and do not impose your opinion on any issue on them.

Mystery Four: they are calm and often not impulsive, so for many of you a strong love or complete indifference on the part of a Cancer man will look the same. The secret is that they respect directness; ask them about your feelings and they will gladly tell you the truth. Try to be open and honest with them.

The last secret Cancer men are his memory. Revenge is alien to this Zodiac Sign, but they always remember insults. They may forget the name of their best friend or how to put the kettle on, but never a grudge. Based on the previous secret, we can conclude - sincerely ask for forgiveness and do not expect that your offense or mistake will be forgotten. Everything can be fixed only by repentance.

So, the main secret of happy love with a Cancer man is to be honest with him and with yourself. In any case, this person is likely to be your guide to the world of warm love and family comfort. Therefore, if you realize that you are ready for this, then go towards happiness. and don't forget to press the buttons and

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